A Brief Overview of Partner Rape In this article, we’ll look at the commonality of partner rape, other forms of abuse that may also happen, and a little on why abusers rape and excuses they make. If you are a survivor new to acknowledging partner rape and healing, the following may help to “normalize” your experiences. Please be aware that although the victims are identified as female, and perpetrators male, these may be interchangeable depending…
What is domestic violence? The following can be regarded as domestic violence: sexual abuse (whether you are married to the other person or not) physical abuse or assault (for example, slapping, biting, kicking, and threats of physical violence) damage to property or anything you value stalking (when the other person follows or approaches you or your children repeatedly) economic abuse, that is, when the other person keeps money to which you are legally entitled from…
Physical Abuse Physical abuse is any intentional and unwanted contact with you or something close to your body. Sometimes abusive behaviour does not cause pain or even leave a bruise, but it’s still unhealthy. Examples of physical abuse are: Scratching, punching, biting, strangling or kicking Throwing something at you such as a phone, book, shoe or plate Pulling your hair Pushing or pulling you Grabbing your clothing Using a gun, knife, box cutter, bat, mace…
JOHANNESBURG, 1 November 2013 (IRIN) – Johannesburg’s glitzy shopping arcades, restaurants and leafy suburbs have come to represent the confident, successful face of South Africa. But there is also a violence here, underlined by the country’s rape statistics, that unites both the townships of the have-nots and the gated communities of the wealthy. South Africa has extremely high levels of sexual assault. “The prevalence of rape, and particularly multiple perpetrator rape… is unusually high,” according…
16 Days of Activism for No Violence Against Women and Children WHAT IS THE 16 DAYS ACTIVISM? It is a WORLDWIDE Campaign to OPPOSE VIOLENCE against WOMEN and CHILDREN It aims to raise awareness of the NEGATIVE impact that VIOLENCE and ABUSE have on WOMEN and CHILDREN and to RID society of ABUSE PERMANENTLY WHEN DOES THE CAMPAIGN TAKE PLACE? The 16 Days of Activism Campaign is held from 25 November to 10 December every…
Get to a safe place as soon as possible Tell the first person you see that you feel you can trust what has happened to you. This may be difficult for you but it is very important because this person can support your story and back you up in court. If the person is a stranger ask for and keep their name and telephone number and write it down Do not wash yourself or throw…
For purposes of this page, we use the term “rape” to mean all crimes of sexual violence, not just those crimes that would qualify as “rape”. The exact definition of “rape,” “sexual assault,” “sexual abuse” and similar terms differs. Please note that this definition is rather graphic, which is inevitable when describing crimes this violent. “Penetration, no matter how slight, of the vagina or anus with any body part or object, or oral penetration by…
It can be hard to know what to do to help a friend or family member who has been raped or sexually assaulted. Here are some tips on what to do (and what not to do) and how to cope yourself. What to say to a rape or sexual abuse survivor: I’m sorry this happened to you. It wasn’t your fault. You survived; obviously you did the right things. Thank you for telling me. I’m…
It’s important to know that there is no normal or one way to react when you find out someone you care about has survived an act of sexual violence. Regardless of what you’re feeling, these emotions can be intense and difficult to deal with. Learning how to manage these feelings can help you support the survivor in your life and can help you feel less overwhelmed. How am I supposed to react? There is no…
Sexual assault occurs when one person engages in sexual activity with another person, without the consent of the other individual. These acts can be a physical or verbal in nature. Sexual assault can be perpetrated in various ways – it can involve strangers or people who know one another, individuals or groups of people. Positions of authority, blackmail, weapons, or drugs may be used to encourage the submission of the victim. In cases such as sexual…